Media Studies has introduced me to many technological fads and has forced me to think critically of the world around me. As I’ve interacted with these various forms of media, a nagging question has consistently come up.
Is new media facilitating cleverly disguised narcissism?
Let me explain. Beginning with MySpace, the internet generation has gravitated towards sites that allow them to speak their minds. This in and of itself isn’t a bad thing. In fact, there’s no doubt that the internet has improved many aspects of 21st century life, among which include increased communication, new ideas gained through collective intelligence and the ability to post journals, blogs, pictures etc. around the world in real time.
However, this freedom to do and say whatever one wants, whenever one wants has led to many people choosing to talk about themselves. On Facebook and Twitter, people update their statuses, sharing some of the most mundane parts of their lives with the world. Blogger and WordPress are filled with rambling blog posts about the writer’s feelings. YouTube is packed full of bad videos of people attempting to be the next viral video star.
It seems to me that the internet promotes communication between people just as much as it promotes self advertising. My generation goes to a music concert and tweets during the middle of it. Late at night, I go onto Facebook only to see twenty new status updates informing me of the latest thing to happen to a friend.
Through the internet, people are trying to share the experiences that happen in their lives on a daily basis. However, it seems like we may be neglecting real world interaction in favor of online self promotion. Instead of watching concerts, people Tweet during sets (a trend that I was upset to see while watching a band at Gillette Stadium). Instead of meeting with friends in person, people write on Facebook walls and go on AIM. We’re increasingly relying on technology to get our gossip (Facebook stalking, anyone?) and to share our own personal stories. But do people publish their opinions online for their own enjoyment or for the chance to share their feelings with an anonymous group?
It’s probably a mixture of both. However, I can’t help but feel like we’re heading down a narcissistic road, one where we are constantly updating our online statuses to inform everyone around us of our generally mundane activities.
So, what do you think? Is the internet really creating a generation of kids who are more obsessed with their online profiles rather than their real world work? Comment below…



